Monthly Archives: February 2015

#WeekendCoffeeShare Frozen Edition

If we were having coffee, I can tell you that I have had enough snow for a while and I’m not anywhere near Boston.  I can also tell you that my first book is starting to take shape. This is the one about character.  My hope is that the book will be an influence for people to build better character and encourage and support good character decisions and role-models in everyone around us, especially in stories, news, books and music. Did I mention that I’ve had enough snow for a while.

Don’t forget to write your own coffee share and add it to the linky at Part Time Monster.

Weekend Rehash – I have an idea

This is a summary of the articles that I have written about character or some aspect of character like compassion. I have idea. I refer to my brain as the cloud sometimes. If you are in IT, not that kind of cloud. This more like the whirling morass just before the aircraft carrier gets sucked back in time or maybe the super cell in one the apocalyptic weather movies. A giant spinning mass that is not really under control but yet has some semblance of order to it. Occasionally things will drop out of the cloud into the queue for my conscious mind to chew upon. One of these was about character. Hence some of the posts this week.

Compassion I learned from Grandma

Monday Challenge-Got Character

To Do List Tuesday-Got Character

I want to promote good character. Not just personally, but for those I influence by being around them, for those I meet, for those of you that I influence because you read what I write (yes both of you 😉 and for everyone else in the world! As Seamus might say, “‘Tis not a wee undertaking there young lad.” I agree. I need help. Specifically I need the help of everyone in the world. I believe if we can get everyone to understand what is good character and to encourage those around to develop good character, that is start toward world peace. More importantly, I think we should all expect everyone to behave with good character and when they don’t we need to understand how we can positively encourage them to improve their character. I am perfect? Not even close. I am aware of both my good character traits as well as those that need work and that is start.

I know that I can be a better listener so that I understand the issues at hand better. I can be more alert and vocal about demonstrations of bad character. For example, if I see someone littering, I can say, “Here, let me take that and dispose of it properly for you.”  I need your help. Leave a comment with answers to any of these questions:

What does good character look like to you?

Why is having good character important?

What do you do to improve your own character?

How would your efforts affect your relationships with others?

Are you drawn to those who show good character?

How do you measure it?

What if they fall short?