Judgement. Grandma never judged anyone. She was a very strong Christian and it was her belief that we are not to judge others. That was God’s job she would say. I think it makes life easier if you don’t judge people. That doesn’t mean that you have to accept their bad behavior, but you focus on the behavior and not the person. You can judge an action, but do not judge the person. This is what I learned from Grandma about Judgement.