Willpower. You have a free will. Do you exercise it? Grandma always said a strong will can be a blessing or a curse. If you don’t have good character, then it will get you in a lot of trouble. Can you exercise to strengthen your willpower? Grandma showed me that by setting goals that require self-discipline and planning AND holding yourself accountable to achieve them, you can grow your willpower and learn to control yourself better. She didn’t use those words, she showed me. When she taught me to sew, we didn’t start by making a shirt, we started by sewing a button. After that, we moved on to fixing a small rip (I provided many of these :-)) Later, I learned to sew a patch over a bigger rip. It’s like a muscle, use it or lose it. Start with small things and build upon them and you too can improve your willpower.